Dear Daughter,
I remember
meeting you for the first time as the nurse handed you to me moments after
Mommy gave birth to you. You were so small, so new to this place that I fought
and struggled in for so many years. Feelings of overwhelming joy washed over me
as I thought of all the things we’d be able to share together. Showing you all
the amazing things this world has to offer and how to defend yourself from all
the dangers that come along with it. I
was afraid of this incredible responsibility that now sat before me. There were
doubts that I would be up to the task of protecting you out in your brand new
world. Fear that I wouldn’t know how to guide you through life so you’d end up
happy and confident.
Those first
few years as a father were tough. Not having had a dad around when I was a kid
proved to be a bigger challenge than I expected. I didn’t know how to play with
a baby, or what would make you smile, or laugh. We worked together, and you
taught me how to play. I can remember
the first time I made you laugh and it was the most amazing sound I had ever
heard. It was genuine, a laugh born of pure joy.
As you
began school it was time to teach you the value of hard work. You had seen me
work hard at my job your whole life so I felt confident that I would be able to
easily reinforce all the merits of hard work. I’d tell you working hard is its
own reward, even though you’d see me come home tired and depressed every day.
If a person works hard, I would say, they can do anything they want, and you’ve
watched me for years work at something I dislike. You hear me tell you over and
over again how important it is to make sure that whatever it is in life you
decide to do, make sure your happy. Unless I’m home with you and Mommy, I’m not
very happy.
As your father,
I should never tell you these things if I’m not willing to live by them. Today,
my dear daughter, this changes. I worked hard to earn the chance to go to
school so that’s what I will do. By doing this you will be able to see a father
who through hard work is happy and enjoys what he does. Today I will be the
example you deserve.
Love,
Daddy